This sounds so weird, but I love when my wife cheats behind my back, especially with black men. What turns me on about it is some people that see she is having sex with black men, will look down on you for it, and be unfriendly with me or her and I. The other thing I like is when some one tells you your wife is a BBC whore, sometimes in groups, sometimes alone. Seems like they are letting me know that they know and have this over your head. Women let you know to take care of your wife, as she is the neighborhood whore. Then there is the black fuck buddies of my wife, when I meet them somewhere. They just smile knowing they have had their very fucking large cock up in them.